“Should My Child Have a Smart Phone?” and Other Questions Parents Ask
Parenting today comes with unique challenges—especially in a world dominated by smartphones, social media, and constant connectivity. In the third part of Raising Faithful Kids–a special four-part edition of our TalkItUp podcast, Barrett Johnson, author and speaker, dives deep into the realities of raising children who not only navigate this digital age but thrive in their faith despite it.
One of the key points Barrett emphasizes is the importance of intentionality in parenting.
“You are responsible for your kids,” he says, urging parents to make decisions not based on societal norms but on God’s guidance. Barrett also highlights the profound influence technology has on every area of life, from relationships and self-esteem to mental health and spiritual growth.
So how can parents help their children develop a faith that lasts? Here are three practical takeaways from the episode:
1. Delay Smartphone Access
Barrett recommends delaying smartphone use until at least 8th grade to give kids time to develop emotional and spiritual maturity. For younger children, consider alternatives like gab phones or flip phones, which allow communication without internet access.
2. Create Tech-Free Habits
Establish family rules that prioritize connection over screen time. Barrett suggests setting up a central charging station where all devices are plugged in during dinner or overnight. These habits create opportunities for deeper conversations and a break from digital distractions.
3. Engage in Conversations About Faith and Culture
From social media to pornography, kids are bombarded with opposing worldviews. Barrett encourages parents to talk openly about these challenges, using resources like Good Pictures, Bad Pictures to equip children to discern truth and make wise choices.
He also gives parents an encouraging word for living counter-culturally, reminding parents that they’ve been tasked by God to protect and guide their kids.
“This managing technology thing in our homes is of utmost importance,” he emphasizes. “Technology can dictate or define every other aspect of their lives.”
Tune in to hear more wisdom from Barrett and walk away with practical strategies to guide your kids to a faith that lasts by streaming the episode below or listening on your favorite podcast platform!